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My dog gets upset when we argue. Is it bad for his well-being?

Updated on September 23, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | German Shepherd | Male | unneutered | 1 year and 5 months old

Bruno loves me a lot and after me he loves my wife a lot so in last 14 days I had heated arguments with my wife in loud voice so he make tendency to come and sit between us so now even if I talk to my wife in loud voice also he comes and sit in between thinks I m fighting but I m only talking so does our arguments had severe effect on his brain does this had any severe effect than than decrease his life span please help me out what should I do now ?

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Claudia Fioravanti

Answered By Claudia Fioravanti

Veterinarian

Published on April 20, 2017

In these situation dogs are like children and they don't like heated arguments in the household , it gives them a sense of insecurity. I would personally suggest to try to talk in a more calmer manner. I don't think Bruno's lifespan would be reduced but his happiness and wellbeing could be affected.
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  • Answered By Dr. Leigh, DVM

    Veterinarian

    Published on June 26, 2017

    It may scare him and cause him some stress but I don't think it will cause a heart attack or a brain problem. Try to remove him from the situation and place him in a quiet room. You could also get him an Adaptil collar which may help with stress and anxiety. Also, explain to your kids that their fighting and shouting is not good for anyone in the house.

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  • Answered By Jennifer Summerfield, DVM CPDT-KA

    Veterinarian, Certified Dog Trainer

    Published on April 19, 2017

    Loud arguments are stressful for dogs, just like they are for children - so I'm sure that Bruno is feeling somewhat stressed and anxious about the situation. I would not expect this to affect his lifespan or make him seriously ill, but having a calmer environment in your home would probably make him happier and less stressed :)

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